Hey sweet friend!

You made it here and I am so excited!

Man am I sure glad you are here and now in my circle. My only goal is to create a community where you feel seen, loved, and included. I’ve never had a girl gang and man has life thrown me some curve balls. So I am BEYOND glad you made it here so we can chat about all the things; motherhood, being a woman, being a wife, military life, and the annoying things our kids do that make us almost not like them very much!

My name is Melissa and while I get through life with sarcasm and telling it like it is, I am here to support you! I am a 12ish chick with lose tummy skin, thunder thighs, and the traditional things that happen after having babies. I have 4 kiddos Paisley-Kate (9), Parker (8), Porter (5), and Preston (2).

My husband Matt is my number one fan, the WORST instagram husband, and a traveling Army Man. And while the Army life isnt easy, it sure is sweet.

I’m an autism momma and we have a kiddo with epilepsy and a rare heart condition, so I have some first hand experience with how hard and unfair life can seem. I am a CHEER mom (yes i know) and most importantly.. I am a post partum depression survivor and will talk candidly about this to remind you that you are NOT ALONE! I SEE YOU, and if you need me, shoot me a message.

Finally… your expectations here… I love to try on styles that our favorite influencers/ bloggers do to empower YOU that YOU can wear whatever the hell you want and do it with confidence. I love good leggings, and I mean… I literally changed my leggings and it changed my entire life so I will throw the tummy tucking leggings in there from time to time (only Zyia). And true, real, raw unplugged motherhood stories.

My life is a series of unfortunate events that will leave you thinking I made them up… it’s just the actual reality of my chaos!

I’m so glad you’re here.

XOXOXO, Melissa